My husband cheated for the lat three years of our marriage. I had a nude picture of him. He should never have don that. He ownned his own business and I ran the office for years. When I found out that he was cheating I told him to pack his bags. This was in January. The next December I sent out Christmas cards to all of his clients. It showed him naked and written over top of the card it said "Ho Ho Ho" which he was. :)

I had a boyfriend named Ozwald, ozwald & me where very much in love, but oneday he decided to do 'the dirty' and cheat on me with my older sister Lou-anne. So i found out they were having a coffee at my mates diner so i payed her to put sleeping pills in their drinks. I followed them home and by that time they had fallen asleep in their chairs. So i shaved my sisters head and put hair growth cream in her moisturiser bottle oh and two my ex - lets just say he's gonna find it very difficult to reproduce.

my husband and I divorced after a three year marriage. he went back to his ex that he went back to with his last ex wife.. i call her the inbetween because both times he left her to go back to the wife... anyway .. he got a cell phone and moved in with her while telling me he loved me, missed me and wanted to get help putting us back.. she called me and i had the pleasure of tell her my new wedding date and letting her talk to him... my revenge strangly is to do right and love him to death... when you don't believe in love it is sad... so i have to let him know it is real. he paid my bills while we were apart and we spoke everyday... i am hurt and pissed cause he started a life that even my ex husband now my current husband's to be best friend knew... the point i am making is that things happen for a reason was his second time going back to the same woman and he only played house --he did not make her the wife either time...,take care....

My boyfriend of 3 years and I split up, we had an apartment together. Well we're still figuring out what we're going to do with the lease ... well I come home from work one day to find that half the furniture in my house, all of his things and most of my electronics are GONE! Oh, last but not least, my dog Houston. I called him up the next day because I had a near emotional break down that night, and he denied having the dog.. uhhh DUHHHHH.. obviously he has him somewhere. Also I almost got evicted b/c he refuses to pay his half of the rent or sign off the lease so I can get a new roommmate... I called him a million times tellin him I'm going to be evicted, and he ignored every call and sat back and let it happen... Who gives a hell right? He's livin back with mommy and daddy. AAARRRGHHHHH!!! So I'm taking him to court and suing him for the remainder of the lease :) I wish there was something else I could do that would DEVISTATE him! Within the law of course :)

The guy I thought was the love of my life, over 6 years of a relationship, with all the ups and downs and what appeared to be a great friendship, vacations together, etc. He answered his phone one night and told me "I can no longer speak to you because I'm seeing someone and we both agreed to quit speaking to our exes". Wow. No idea I was his ex until that phone call. We are both not young, he is almost 40 and he broke up with me like a "highschooler". Anyway, come to find out, he only grew the courage to say that to me because his girlfriend was listening to the phone call with him. He said he would always be my friend, we just couldn't "talk" anymore. I was totally devastated for months and so hurt that he could do that to me.

So, knowing him the way I do, I recently put an ad on a "chat line" and changed my voice, just to see if he was being faithful to his girlfriend. In a mere 2 weeks or so, lover boy responded to my ad and began sending me very detailed voice mails of his sexual needs, wants, etc. After a week of us sending voice messages to each other, I got him to explain about his relationship now, if he was serious, and it really did make me feel better that he didn't just do this to me, he does it to everyone. Although I do feel sorry for his g/f, she probably has not idea what a sick person he is. He did not have any idea it was me, but wants to talk to me "live" and asked that I call him, and then suddenly began to suspect. This system allows recording of the messages, so I have all his phone messages, etc.

I am actually asking for advise....do you think I should confess who I am now? And why I did it? Or should I keep playing with him? I'm not trying to black mail him, nothing like that, only trying to make him pay, maybe scare him. I really did get over him in a matter of a couple days, realizing who he is. I'm stuck trying to make a decision on how far to go with this. I don't need advice about religion or God, just ideas.

My ex boyfriend and I were really, really close but about 8 months into the relationship he started this club thing and was so obsessed in going ALL the time as if his life depended on it. I let it go at first and was pleased he had found a new hobby, but it was strange when he started getting text messages from girls and wouldn't show them to me. He'd ALWAYS shown me his text messages before so it was shocking when 'suddenly' i couldn't look at his phone without him practically killing me on the spot. One night I found his phone and read the messages. There were LOADS which explains why he didn't text me. I kept this to myself and I knew full weight he was cheating on me.

So i derived a devious plan and that was to hack into his old yahoo account, I knew his password, he told it to me, so, as his girlfriend it's my right to look, yeah?

So I went on and found emails from a few months ago from a totally different girl all together. My ex had told her he was a 16 year old racing car driver and had litterally posed as someone he wasn't. I took screenhots and showed these to ALL his friends, and gathered all my information together only to display it to EVERYBODY right in front of him (All my friends, all his friends etc) and even then he denied EVERYTHING. Unfortunately, I had to work with him and I over heard him talking one day and he says 'the other ones in another city blah blah' and I just had to spread he was a cheat around to everybody in my whole neighbourhood. Rest assured, no one who knows him has trusted him since, I feel sorry for his current girlfriend who is totally oblivious.

I was dating this guy on and off for about one year. Every now and then while we were together he would all of a sudden stop taking my calls,would not see me-I was totally being avoided by him. One day he broke down and told me the reasoning behind his ignoring me from time to time was due to his ex-girlfriend calling him and mentioning the idea of them getting back together. When he told me this I pretended like it wasn't a big deal and that I was just glad he told me the truth.

Well, I spent a while thinking about what I could do to get back at him for hurting me the whole time we were together. So,one night I told him I was staying with some friends and I would call him later on that evening. When I didn't call him like I said I would I knew he would show up with his sidekick both drunk and extremely ignorant.

Well, I started a little scene to get everyone's attention(cue for my friend to call the cops).After she called I walked him towards his car still fighting with him and had him sit in it and promised him if he left and gave me some time to cool down,I would come over so we could discuss this.

Well, wouldn't you know the cops showed up and I pointed out my boyfriend as being "the drunk behind the wheel" Well, for all of my pain he got three days in jail, a suspended license, and had to pay out the ass for court fees,license fees attorney fees and had to attend a couple of court ordered driving classes. Ha-it was the sweetest thing.

Wow, do I have a good one for you...

My bf of 6 months cheated on me, I know it doesn't seem like along time but within that 6mths we had been through alot. He has a child with an overbearing woman that he so called couldn't stand. Well she called me on Monday sayin that they were still together and that she is 5 moths pregnant. I didn't believe her till I heard him talking in the background! She has been in my bed, and drivin my car!!! So I went home, got all the clothes he owned and his play station, dropped the clothes in mud and took them to his moms house. Then I sold his play station to some guy for 50.00 bucks.

When my boyfriend split up with me I was upset. I got even more mad when he started going out with my sister! I had a thirst for revenge so I talked to all my friends and we made up a plan that we would get my ex to think that my sister was using him, that she never really liked him. So we got Beths hand writing and password to her computer. We even got her signiture! So we put a diary entry on her computer that looked like my sister wrote it. It was talking about how she planned to make him think she liked him to get him to break up with me and all this other junk. We put my sisters sig on it printeded it and gave it to my ex. He believed it and broke up with her. He wanted to get back together with me but I said "Nope. I dont date stupid people!".

To keep it short, my ex has a pretty awful temper and thats why we got the hell away. After I left him he was ordered to pay maintenance for the kids but he didn't make it easy lying about his income. Some time later he did pay for two months, then the third was stopped by him two days after it had been in my account leaving me in debt to my bank and I was so peed off.

My bank sent me the cheque back with a big red stamp on it declaring it cancelled and said I had a right to send it to his bank for an explanation. As I threw it in the bin I had a creative flash and fished it out, smoothed it out and glued it to a piece of fresh white card. I then set about making it look like a card Cheque-in-the-post postcard, available from all Bulshizen Builders etc and it looked prety darn good if I say so myself. I addressed it to the bank manager thinking the staff may have a good laugh and chuck it in the bin. I explained I understood the cheque had to be cancelled due to my ex having to pay all his drug dealers and mortgages and could therefore not possibly afford to pay his children any maintenance.

I felt sick after I posted it wishing I hadn't and afraid of the repercussions but heard nothing for two whole years by which time I had forgotten all about it! Then out of the blue I heard ex's voice on the phone one sunny day shouting madly several times over "You F*** B***". "Huh?" I said. Still ranting hysterically he said "I went for a mortgage for another house today and do you know what the bank manager pulled out of his drawer your ****g postcard, B***." Well did I bloody laugh out loud, I hadn't laughed so much for ages and it felt good. "So did you get the mortgage then?" (just to rub it in!) "What the **** do you think you ****g b****!" More laughter from me as I put the phone down on him and laughed some more, now he can stick his maintenance where his ego is!